Tom of England Song of the Sex Monk (2019)
In religious contexts celibacy is often regarded as a path to spiritual enlightenment, fostering a deeper connection with the divine and a transcendence of worldly desires. Many religious and spiritual traditions—including Christianity, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism and Sufism—believe that abstaining from sexual activity can channel energy toward higher consciousness, self-discipline and service to others.
For some, celibacy proves fulfilling, leading to personal growth and a sense of purpose (and other surprising results). However, those who feel coerced into it often suffer emotionally, sometimes with devastating consequences, including widespread instances of abuse and exploitation.
As contentious as celibacy itself is, so too is the meaning of musician Tom of England’s “Song of the Sex Monk”. Is the haunting, indie-inspired club anthem from 2019 a meditation on transcending earthly desires? Or does it tell the story of a monk breaking free from his constraints to experience physical intimacy with a loved one?
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